Advice re court contact order?

Every situation is different. I don't think you ex's absence cancels the order. However advice in this forum could put you wrong. these situations can be unpleasant so check with your lawyer a soon as possible. In general courts view it as important that children have on going contact with both parents, Its only the interests of the children that the court will really look at. As I said talk to a lawyer. If money is an issue check with your local citizens advice bureau they might be able to advise where you can find a chap lawyer or even better tell you where to find free advice.